New to this whole thing

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I write a lot but a lot of people don't probably know that. It's cathartic for me but it's so much more than that. It's where I have found my voice and it's time I start sharing that. I hope that maybe some of these ramblings mean something to someone. Who knows if they'll even be read or not. I don't know. But this is something I've been really truly thinking about. It's something I feel I should do. And this is a fairly public forum but let's see what happens.

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